Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Daddy & Daughter = A Big Time Out

I've never met a man who is more devoted to his own family than my own father.  Gosh how I miss the days of hanging with my dad.  I'd give just about anything for ONE more day.

Steve is so in love with his girls.  While Stella is still a bit young to really "go and do", when the man has a day off or any spare time, it is always spent spoiling Lottie and taking her on little adventures.

Steve had Columbus day off work so he took Stella to daycare and spent the day hanging with Lottie.  I had to work, but got multiple texts and a sweet little visit from the two of them.  Lottie as well as every other two year old alive loves "choo choos".  With that said, Steve decided that he and Lottie would take a little adventure to town on the Linx light rail train.  To say she loved it would be an understatement.  They drove to Pineville, parked the car, then headed to town.  Over the moon I tell you.

Steve of course dressed Lottie in her "best" clothes.  By the time they visited my office she was in a JERSEY and white windbreaker pants!  WTH???????????  I know I've talked about Steve and his dang jerseys before = the man is OOC!!!!!!!  Granted Lottie can pull off just about anything you put on her, but lets reserve the jerseys for game day Coop!  This kid has no chance when it comes to jerseys!  Her closet is bound to be full of them.  She's already got three of them.  Lord help me!!!!!! Put the jerseys away!!!!!!!!!

Back on track.............  the girl had a blast.  Between riding the choo choo and walking around town with her daddy, they both had huge smiles on their face when I walked through the door that evening.  Lottie couldn't wait to tell me all about her big adventure and show me what her daddy bought her at the Panther's team store.  I swear the man spoils his babies!

Here's a look back at their little adventure through Steve's eyes and texts.............................

 
On the way to town on the choo choo

 
Panther Stadium

 
Shopping bag in tow
 
 
mmmmmmmm....what shall I have for lunch?

 
I'm with dad!!!  I can order whatever I want!!!

 
Yummo!

 
Waiting to catch the train back to Pineville

 
Passed out!!!  The day wore her out!  She couldn't even make it back to the car!

 
Officially passed out, bag still in tow!  Never try to take a girl's shopping bags!
 
Love these two!!!!!!!!!  Steve is a great dad!!!  He truly loves his girls!
 
xoxo


Friday, October 18, 2013

Sisters - Watch Them Grow






Future BFFs
 
Lottie insists on wearing Stella's headbands!  What can I say, she's a ham!
 
Stella - 5 Months
 
Lottie - 2 years, 8 months

The Cesspool I call Daycare!!!

Excuse the subject line of this post, but damn it's been one of those weeks!!!! 

Last Monday, I trekked all the way from downtown Charlotte to Waxhaw to Matthews to get Stella to the doctor.  The kid woke up with that oh too familiar gunk (greenish nastiness) coming out of her eye.  Oh the memories from Lottie's ever present gunk eyes - AKA ear infections. 

I just knew it was the devil I call EAR INFECTION.  Sure enough after a thorough exam, she was diagnosed with a left ear infection.  She also had symptoms of the bark like seal cough but through antibiotics I was hoping for that to clear up as well............. 

Fast forward three days and I was trekking from Charlotte to Waxhaw to Matthews to take Lottie to the doctor for her bark, seal like cough.  I haven't had to take that girl for a sick visit since she had tubes put in her ears (13 months old).  Unfortunately, we weren't able to see our regular pediatrician and had to see one of his colleagues.  She was great and upon hearing Lottie's cough determined she had CROUP!  Bugger!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (English slang) 

It was determined the best way to rid croup was a 3 day dose of steroids.  Let's just say - she only ended up taking 2 doses.  I just did not feel comfortable giving her steroids.  Thankfully, it cleared up and she is fine, but those two days of steroids were awful!  She behaved badly and just wasn't herself.  I don't know how people can take them recreationally.  Idiots!!!

Okay, fast forward to this week.  My throat started feeling pretty sore on Tuesday and I thought, "oh great, a cold is coming!"  By Wednesday morning, I was dizzy, had a fever and could not swallow.  I tried my best to get to work, but I just couldn't.  I called my PCP and scheduled an appt. first thing.  I probably would have let it ride, but being sick and caring for two kids might be the absolute worst thing imaginable.  After seeing the doctor, I was diagnosed with strep throat.  Ummmmm, I have NEVER had strep throat!  Awful.  I had a high fever and the worse swollen throat imaginable.  As a remedy, I was written a prescription for 10 days of antibiotics and 3 days of steroids.  Just what I needed right??????????

Holy cow, now I know how my kids felt on steroids!  I just finished up my last dosage and while it did a heck of a job of getting the swelling to go down in my throat, it has made me feel awful!  I have been sweating like a pig, it literally has given me hot flashes and the sweats!  So gross!

Thankfully, we are all starting to feel better and back on track.  The only thing I can think of that started all this mess was the cesspool of germs that come from daycare.  I know it can be a good thing that kids are exposed to the germs sooner than later.  Their immune systems will go strong, but gosh it's hard getting the every so often phone calls and the back and forths to the doctor.   Oh the struggles of the working parents!!!!!!!!! 

Hopefully, this coming week we will be back in a routine.  Routine is key for our family! 

Okay, enough of the rant.  While I love the place my kids go to learn and grow, I hate the germs that come along with it!  Guess that's just a part of life right??????  Keep in mind I've been on steroids people.  Poor Steve is all I can say.  :)

School Pictures - Fall 2013


School pictures - I seriously can't get enough of them.  Yes, they are incredibly overpriced and I end up spending far too much, but I just can't help myself! 
 
This year Lottie decided to rough house on the playground the day before (go figure) and ended up with a little shiner on picture day. 
 
Lottie looked like she could have used a brush through her hair before her picture, but hey at least she managed to keep it up and bow in tow.
 
Stella on the other hand!!!!!!!!!  It's clear a melt down ensued when it was time to take her picture.  I tell you, the girl is a crier!!!  Ha!  Clearly the photographers had their hands full and attempted to take her photo as quickly as possible!  See said photo below.  Her rosy cheeks and full wet eyes tell the story.  She was not as pleased as her sister to pose for a few pictures. 
 
Without further a do...........  My sweet girls, one sassy and full of attitude, the other sweet and full of tears!  :) 
 
No matter how many times I pinch myself, I still can't believe this life I've been given.  Being a mom to these sweet girls is the best life I could have imagined for myself ever................
 





Sunday, October 13, 2013

Stella's First Peas








 
Kid loves to eat!  Gosh I love a chubby baby! 
 
Cheers Stella!  The first of many meals to come!
 
Love you cheeks!  xoxo

Stella - 5 Months

Weight: 16 lbs, 7 oz (70%)

Clothes: It's all 6 to 9 months.  I swear the girl could wear straight 9 months.  She's even got a couple of 12 month pants that fit.  The length is a little long, but the waist fits just right.  She's got a little belly on her.

Diapers: Size 3 - what a better fit!  :)

Eating: This child is a beast!  Her most favorite thing to do is EAT!  She is still taking in anywhere from 25 to 32 oz each day.  A typical day when she's going to daycare is:

6:15 a.m.: 6 oz
9:15 a.m.: 1/2 a container of baby food
9:30 a.m.: 6 oz
12:15 p.m.: 1/2 a container of baby food
12:30 a.m.: 6 oz
3:30 p.m.: 6 oz
6:00 p.m.: 6 to 8 oz

Yep, you read that right!  The girl has been showing major signs that she is ready to move on to bigger and better things!  I started with rice cereal, but she pretty much turned her nose up to that.  However, when presented with peas, carrots and sweet potatoes, she was in food heaven!  She immediately took to them like I've never seen before (well, compared to Lottie).  We didn't even start Lottie on baby food or rice cereal until she was 6 months.  Even then, she was never a big eater.  Lottie never took in more than 32 ounces of milk her entire first year.  I reckon Stella will be eating dinner with us by the time she's 8 months old.  At the rate she's going, she'll be eating Lottie's dinner too.  Holy cow, getting Lottie to eat her dinner is an act of Congress as it is. 

Stella's reflux is much better.  Currently we are using Enfamil Gentle Ease (Sam's Club brand).  I've felt pretty comfortable sticking with this brand over the last two months. 

Sleep: Let's just say, we have been soooooooooooooooooooo lucky with sleep at night!  The kid is a rock star at night.  She goes down every night between 6:30 p.m. and 7:30 p.m. and doesn't wake up until 6:15 a.m.  During the day is a different story, she's never been a big napper.  She may have one decent nap late morning, but that's it.  She has a couple of cat naps too, but we are talking 20 minutes max.   

Crying:  Stella, Stella, Stella.............  Wow, what a difference you and your sister are!!!!  Lottie rarely cried and seemed pretty happy all the time.  While Stella seems like a happy baby most times, she is a crier!!!  She is still on a crying fit from about 5:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. every week night.  This has been going on for a few months.  Same thing, day in and day out.  Crazy!!!  The tears and the uncontrollable cries are the last thing you want to have happen at the end of a work day when all you want to do is spend time loving and playing with your kids.  Every month I keep telling myself it will get better.  Ugghhhh..............  The only thing that really seems to calm Stella down is when Steve gets home from work.  She LOVES him.  He calls himself the baby whisperer.  Cracks me up.  She goes from hysterically crying to googly eyed smiles when she sees her daddy.  Then by some miracle he puts her right to sleep.  Crazy!

Milestones: This past month has been full of smiles, laughs and cute little girly screams.  She has the sweetest, most genuine smile on her.  She loves being tickled and sitting up right.  She's still not a huge fan of tummy time, but she is getting stronger and more tolerant to it every day. She's still not a full time roller but rolls from tummy to back during tummy time.  I've yet to see her roll from back to tummy.  It just amazes me how different the girls are with their developments.  Lottie was rolling over both ways from 12 weeks on, but when it came to eating, she was light years behind.  I think as parents we have these expectations about what our kids should do doing each week/month.  But I've learned that kids truly have no time table - they are going to do things on their time and when their ready. 

Stella's ideal day is spent hanging in her Baby Einstein exersaucer, jumping in the bouncy thing that hangs in the doorway, hanging outside on the deck in her Bumbo or Rock and Play and chilling on the couch with her toys.  She loves her rattles, little dollies and her Sophie giraffe.  She's constantly trying to eat them. Her most favorite thing though is sitting up right!  She does not like laying down unless it is to sleep at night.  Most of the day, she is sitting up - engaged in what's going on around her.  She's also found her hands and feet!!!!!!!!!!  The girl loves sucking on her hands!  And if her belly wasn't so big, she would have her feet in her mouth too.  She also loves "blowing bubbles".  The sounds that come out of her mouth make me giggle.  She's really starting to find her voice.  Before we know, she will be shouting from the roof tops just like her sister. 

Sibling Love: Stella loves her sister.  Her face lights up when Lottie enters the room or speaks to her.  When she sees Lottie playing with her toys, you can tell that she is just itching to get down on the floor to play with her big sister.  I have a feeling that since Stella has been sitting up so well, she will be playing with her big sister on the floor in the next month.

Likes: EATING, sucking on her hands, riding in the car, taking a bath, putting her warm jammies on at the end of the day, seeing her daddy walk in the door from work, playing with sissy when she's not poking or prodding her, sitting up, playing with her rattles and dollies, pressing buttons/playing in her exercauser and being tickled.  She also loves "flying" in the air. 

Dislikes: Being hungry, tired, tummy time and when Lottie whines, cries, fusses in front of her.